18-24 Months: Learning About Me -- Observation Record

How does the toddler show how he feels?

Toddlers show their wishes, worries, fears, and expectations through their behaviors, play, and actions. They find out who they are, what they can do, and who is in charge by exploring their surroundings, making choices, and experiencing some frustrations and some successes.

The toddler might do one or more of the following:

• Enjoy his image–look in the mirror and smile at his reflection as he tries on dress-up hats.
• Show he did it–show his mom or caregiver a sandwich he made "all by self!"
• Become stubborn–insist on wearing his shorts even though it's cold outside.
• Practice saying "no"–answer no to everything, whether it's a question about wanting a cookie, or a comment that it's time to get ready for a nap.
• Lose it–fall down on the floor wailing because he can't have the truck someone else is playing with.

How does this toddler show how he feels? (Include dates.)

How does the toddler show he is trying to manage his behavior?

Toddlers are exploring the limits of their behavior. Their wish to be powerful and to control things can sometimes lead them to resist adult guidance and support. Adults can help them manage frustrations by being enthusiastic about toddlers' efforts, setting limits, and comforting them when things don't go their way.

The toddler might do one or more of the following:

• Want it his way–insist on taking out the puzzle, even though his caregiver says it's time to put things away.
• Get frustrated–give in to anger and tears while trying to string beads, but then pull himself together and try again.
• Do what you say–close the kitchen drawer after being told with words to keep it closed.
• Get the message–climb down off the sofa or the table when a caregiver calls his name, frowns, or shakes her head.
• Clean up–run over to the sink to wash off his hands when he's finished fingerpainting.

How does this toddler show he is trying to manage his behavior? (Include dates.)