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Staying Close to a Child in College
Question: My oldest child just started college and I don't know my role in her life anymore. She is on the other side of the state and is a very independent person. How do I get her to share without invading her space?
Answer: There are many constructive strategies you can use to stay involved in your daughter's life. Encourage her to talk about the experiences that she is having and be cautious not to be judgmental. At the same time, it's very important to maintain consistency in terms of the basic values that you have always shared with her.
Adjusting to college life will provide challenges and opportunities for your daughter. Let her know that you welcome just talking with her. This may be a time when she need you more than ever, no matter how independent she seems.
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Del Antaki has worked as a counselor at the junior high, middle, and high school levels for many years. Before becoming a school counselor, she taught mathematics and English.
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