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The Twelve-Year-Old at School

Is the homework lost on the bus? The math book left at home? Look below to find out how your twelve-year-old learns and behaves in the classroom.

Vision and Fine Motor Ability

  • Increased fine motor ability, patience for practice, self -confidence, makes all fine motor tasks more pleasurable

  • Sustains reading for long periods; visual concentration better; longer periods on the computer; learns word processing, other skills.

  • Handwork still popular; interest in more complicated visual-motor tasks (carpentry, mechanical repair, clothes design, architecture)

    Gross Motor Ability

  • Team sports satisfying for many; also individual work in dance, drama, martial arts, gymnastics

  • Begin the idea of training, regular exercise, as means to improve physical ability

  • Enjoy teaching younger children physical skills

    Cognitive Growth

  • Current events, civics, history highly motivating when tied to issues of clear relevance to students

  • More interest and depth in drama, debate, performance; rehearsal and revision increasingly understood, appreciated (true in the writing also)

  • Lengthy homework, assignments due over longer periods become more reasonable, but can be problem over weekends; planning and organization of assignments improves

  • Can help peers significantly with subject matter; allow time for peer conferencing, partner projects, lab partners in science, etc.

  • Both playful and serious -- love to play class games but can have a serious discussion a moment later

  • Isolated subject matter, distinct class periods tend to fragment rather than integrate learning; pursue joint teaching projects, self-contained classrooms where possible

    Social Behavior

  • Leadership qualities abound -- provide many opportunities for cross-age tutoring, jobs at school, community service, hosting visitors, providing childcare for parent meetings

  • Teacher should listen, respond to suggestions for changes in routines (as realistic)

  • Provide ceremonies, rituals, rewards at significant benchmarks in year; give twelves a part in planning

  • Provide access to significant adults (other than teacher) for help with issues of drugs, alcohol, sex, AIDS, violence, family issues

  • Making money (from jobs at home, in neighborhood) becomes important

  • Make time to listen

    From Yardsticks: Children in the Classroom Ages 4-14 by Chip Wood, © 1997 by Northeast Foundation for Children (800) 360-6332. All rights reserved as permitted under the US copyright Act of 1976. No part of this publication may be reproduced or distributed in any form or stored in a database or retrieval system without the prior written permission of the publisher.

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