I am on the middle path of this controversy. I have seen low doses of stimulant medication do wonders for some kids. It has helped them to pay attention long enough to learn methods of organization and skill-building. I have also seen some kids not adjust to the medication -- they can become too emotional. Older gifted college students have reported that their creative thinking has been compromised temporarily when they are on the medication.
No matter which path you choose, counseling for you and your child can help you deal with this disorder and manage it effectively without letting it "manage" you. Good luck.