"When a child is dealing with the difficulties of a learning disability and has not been diagnosed, he or she may feel dumb or worthless," says Dr. Matthew Brewer, pediatrician. "This frustration can lead the child to destructive behaviors such as violence or drug abuse." Students with LD must be reassured that they are bright people who are only having problems because their minds process information differently. If you notice any of the following characteristics in your middle school student talk to your child and contact a professional as soon as possible.
Trouble recalling facts
Problems making friends
Difficulty with word problems
Avoids reading aloud
Reverses letter sequences (soiled/solid, left/felt)
Tight or awkward pencil grip
Difficulty understanding facial expressions or body language
Problems with handwriting
Problems with learning prefixes, suffixes, root words and other spelling strategies
Avoids writing assignments
Before you can solve your child's problems you need to know what you are dealing with. Contact your school and arrange for a complete evaluation. You will be referred to professionals who specialize in your child's area of difficulty. Working with professionals and offering constant support is your best strategy to help your child.