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A Good Morning Routine for Your Kindergartener
Q: We have a third-grader and a kindergartner, with another on the way in two weeks. I am battling my kindergartner every day just to get to school. I was hoping you might have some advice as to how to have a happy morning ritual and get off to school without tears or manipulation on my part.
A: Call the teacher and ask for his or her aid in helping your child adjust to school. Be sure to find out if your child is settling down after arriving at school. If so, she will probably make a smooth transition soon to attending kindergarten. It would also help to find out from the teacher if your child has any classmates in your neighborhood who could become friends.
You are absolutely correct about a good morning routine helping your child get ready for school. In the evening, pick out the next day's school clothes with your child and pack and place his book bag by the door. Set an alarm clock to give sufficient time for dressing. Have a scheduled time for a family breakfast to get the day started together. Be sure to enlist other family members' help in caring for the newborn and preparing breakfast. Most important of all, leave enough time after breakfast to cuddle your child and read a story together before he must leave for school.
Keep in mind that your kindergartner is faced with two very stressful events: starting school and the birth of a new sibling. It may help to reduce some of the stress by talking with both of your school-aged children about the day's activities. Find out what was fun, what was good, what the teachers said, and what the other children did. Be sure to keep these conversations very positive so your younger child will see all the good things about school.
It is possible that your child may not be ready for kindergarten. Is he one of the youngest in the class? Does he adjust well to your absence? Consider your child's social, emotional, physical, and mental development in evaluating his readiness for kindergarten. Discuss this issue with the teacher.
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Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts are experienced teachers who have more than 60 educational publications to their credit. They began writing books together in 1979. Careers for Bookworms was a Book-of-the-Month Club paperback selection, and Pancakes, Crackers, and Pizza received recognition from the Children's Reading Roundtable. Gisler and Eberts taught in classrooms from kindergarten through graduate school. Both have been supervisors at the Butler University Reading Center.