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Gifted Preschool Children

by the National Association for Gifted Children

Gifted Superhero BoyStanding Out from the Group

Some preschool children stand out from the group. They are intense, sensitive, and seem to be more aware of the world around them than other children their age. Many times they are able to do "school work" long before they go to school. They may be intensely interested in some area; for example, Sarah may want to examine every rock she passes or Seth may beg for yet another book about pirates. Parents and teachers working with such children often have a number of questions.

How Do Bright Preschool Children Differ from Other Children Their Age?

As a group, bright preschool children differ from others their age in some of the ways they think and feel. In most cases, their physical development is similar to other children's. However, each child is an individual, with an individual pattern of development. Bright preschool children are likely to differ from others their age in many, but not all, of the following ways.

Ways of Thinking

  • Curiosity: Are extremely curious about how things work; often ask "Why?" and "Why not?"
  • Memory: Remember things that happened a long time ago, enjoy interesting facts
  • Learning: Learn ideas quickly and can use them in new situations
  • Attention: Can maintain attention for long periods of time on things that interest them
  • Reasoning: Understand cause and effect; see connections between ideas and events
  • Fluency: Have lots of ideas and solutions for problems
  • Vocabulary: Use a greater variety of words and phrases than other children of the same age; may begin speaking and understanding language at an early age
  • Sense of Humor: Quickly understand jokes and riddles; can create their own humor

    Ways of Feeling

  • Idealism: May have a strong sense of right and wrong and be disturbed if they believe something is wrong
  • Sensitivity: Can be sensitive to the emotions of others; easily upset, can find the evening news distressing
  • Intensity: Can have intensely happy, sad, or fearful reactions
  • Seeking for Peers: May prefer to play with older children in a search for intellectual peers
  • Frustrated by Development: May be frustrated when their physical development does not keep pace with their intellect; for example, when they can think of an elaborate picture but do not have enough control of the pencil to draw it.

    What Type of Preschool Program is Best for a Bright Child?

    Bright preschool children need school situations that individualize, allowing children to develop at their own rate. A good program should allow choices in activities and design at least some activities around the students' interests. There should be a chance for students to use advanced vocabulary and ideas, and to explore many types of books and other materials. Bright young children should be able to spend some of their time with others who are equally bright.

    What Can I Do at Home to Help My Bright Preschool Child?

    Preschool children who are constantly exhibited and praised for their unusual talents can come to believe they are only valued for those talents. Although all children need reasonable praise, it is important that bright children feel loved for who they are and not what they do. Treating your child as normally as possible, while encouraging her learning and creativity, can keep her from feeling pressured as she grows. Allowing your child's interests to drive activities, offering opportunities and allowing him to make choices about how he spends his time, can help him develop his abilities in a low-pressure atmosphere.

    Reprinted with the permission of the National Association for Gifted Children -- a non-profit association of teachers and parents that publishes educational materials, including the magazine "Parenting for High Potential."

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